Star Trek: The Next Generation (1989): S03E05 – the Bonding


“The Bonding” is the fifth episode of the third season of the syndicated American science fiction television series Star Trek: The Next Generation, the 53rd episode overall, first broadcast on 23 October 1989.

Set in the 24th century, the series follows the adventures of the Starfleet crew of the Federation starship Enterprise-D. In this episode, an Enterprise crewmember is killed in a tragic accident, leaving a newly orphaned young son to deal with her death.

This was the first Star Trek:The Next Generation written by Ronald D. Moore. Moore went on to contribute to dozens of other episodes, including the award winning finale.


While investigating a planet once occupied by Koinonians, Security Chief Worf and members of the Enterprise away team trigger an ancient mine. They are transported to Sickbay, but Lieutenant Marla Aster is dead. As Captain Picard delivers the news of Marla’s death to her son Jeremy, Wesley Crusher talks with Commander Riker about how Picard had delivered the news of his father’s death to his mother and himself. Worf expresses his desire to make R’uustai, a Klingon bonding ritual with Jeremy, as they are both orphans and he believes he can help the boy recover emotionally, but Jeremy blames Worf for his mother’s death.

The crew investigates the planet, discovering mines that were recently unearthed and exposed. They observe a beam of charged particles emanating from the surface headed towards the Enterprise, while Counsellor Troi senses a new presence from the planet. In Jeremy’s quarters, a physical manifestation of Marla appears, explaining that the crew mistakenly considered her dead and that she wants Jeremy to live on the planet. Troi and security follow the two preventing “Marla” from using the transporter to return to the planet. They return to Jeremy’s quarters, which has the appearance of the Asters’ home on Earth. Chief Engineer La Forge tunes the shields to stop the particle beam, causing “Marla” to disappear and the room returns to normal.

A filament rises from the planet, striking the Enterprise and disrupting the shields; “Marla” appears and takes Jeremy, intent on going to the transporter room. Picard contains “Marla” with force fields and talks to her. “Marla” explains that she is one of two races that once lived on the planet; her species, made from energy, watched the other physical species wipe themselves out from wars and her people want to prevent more suffering caused by the remnants of the war, thus providing Jeremy with the illusion of his mother still being alive. Picard and Troi point out that dealing with death is part of the human condition. Wesley explains to Jeremy how he dealt with his father’s death. Jeremy expresses his hatred of Worf, but Troi points out they are both orphans, while Worf notes that he was aided by humans after he lost his parents. Jeremy decides to go with Worf. Realising that Jeremy will be alright, the illusion of Marla disappears and the alien presence is no more.

Some time later, Worf and Jeremy undertake the R’uustai ritual.

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Production & Filming Details

  • Director(s): Winrich Kolbe.
  • Writer(s): Ronald D. Moore.
  • Release Date: 23 October 1989.
  • Running Time: 45 minutes.
  • Country: US.
  • Language: English.

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